Consider the positive role models from whose example
you have benefitted throughout life. Could you ever have
imagined all of the ways they were going to motivate you?
They draw you in through their example. They connect to your core. They command fierce passion and loyalty. Your thoughts of them both intimidate and compel you. They are your role models.
We connect with different role models at every stage in life. At first, you may not realize that it is happening. As they demonstrate the personal qualities that you admire, you are drawn
to their vision. As you observe them continuing to show these qualities in the most difficult of situations, you find yourself wanting to be like them. You are becoming a different person, in a way that you could not possibly have imagined before you first met them.
Athletic role models are particularly significant. You will strive to become motivated in the way that they are motivated. Sometimes you may disagree with them, but if they are truly your role model, you will still come back
Right now, you can't imagine all of the ways they can positively motivate
you. So choose wisely.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Dr. Jeremy Van Dyken is a counselor
at the Soor Center for Professional
Therapy & Assessment, and author
of several periodical articles.
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